This injury will be more noticeable in people who have had very authoritarian and cold parents. Between the ages of 4 and 6, the child needs to assert his individuality even more, but it is rather suppressed.
He will find it unfair not to be able to be himself and this will often crystallize more in relation to the parent of the same sex. If the parent has difficulty being in their feelings, expressing themselves with healthy communication, they will encourage all of this without their knowledge of course. He does his best with the resources he has, we know that. However, criticism and severity create pain in the heart of the little being. It is anticipated that the parent possibly suffered from the same injury.
For more information we recommend Lise Bourbeau's book "The 5 wounds that prevent you from being yourself".